Sam Oliver
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- About Me:
- My husband passed away August 14, 2006. Since that time I have been trying to find ways to cope with the loss. He died of liver cancer and we only had 6 months from diagnosis to death. I identify with much of the writing of Elaine Williams. I still cry almost every day and believe it will never go away. I pray and meditate for happiness and healing because I believe we are to be happy again. The time frame and circumstances clearly are very individual. I recently tried the online dating thing and find that too much trouble and slightly frightening since you have no idea if others are being as honest as yourself. I am terribly lonely for someone to talk with and for human touch. I believe in God and know there is a plan. I have some major medical problems and it is a challange to handle them alone. It is a challange just living day to day and taking care of this house! But, I am.
- My Philosophy:
- Gratitude every day.
- Relationship Status:
- widow - not dating yet
I listen to the same music every night and it dawned on me today I am programming my brain as I sleep to be sad. Now I need to find some new music. Not so easy when you aren't used to listening to music regularly, I don't know where to start. I am quilting again....yeah!! It is a creative pasttime and one you can share with others as gifts.
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I am the above named person from BAHRAIN. I am married to Mr. Clement Wast who worked with Bahrain embassy here in TOGO- LOME for nine years before he died in the year 2007.
We were married for eleven years without a child. He died after a brief illness that lasted for only four days.Before his death we were both born again Christian dear pls if you dont mind i will also like to discuse kindom matter(etc) with you pls kindly message me to my box (favourclement10@yahoo.com)
for more important information's thanks, May God Fight for all children of God Accodin to the word on (Exo 14/14)
Remain blessed in the Lord
Sister mrs favour
That second year is harder as you think you have gone through all the firsts of everything then you have to go through it all again. Hope this third year will get a little easier for you and that you will have some sunshine and rainbows in your life
Love and hugs {{{{{{{{Elaine}}}}}}}}
Anne
I come from Germany and have lived for over 40jears now in Australia with my Husband.I had 2Children a Son and a daughter.My Son gott married at 30 he had also 2children. The marriage was not happy from beginning as his wife was very controlling. Did not erlau contact with us neither did we gett to see much of the grandchildren. My Son also suffered from MS. Over the jears he got procressivle worse. nearly 2jears now he suddenly died in tracig circumstances the day she left him. (not suicide). she would not give as his ashes to probarley put him to rest. now nearly 2 jears after we have accepted his death she hands them over through someone else. We have been shocked. and going through the same grief all over again, but are going to putt him finally to rest.
I t is hard, but i understand where jou coming from Elaine. I wish jou well.
My friend who died would not be a 'huggy' person but she was able to speak warm words instead to help others who were hurting.
I too have done the online dating thing and it is a dangerous thing to do. We are very vulnerable and yes often the guys are not as honest or loving as we are ...
I am glad you are making beautiful quilts. This is where there is healing to be found. You are blessing others. Just recently I read that we can find help in volunteering kind of work. And I began to knit squares - only doing a wee blanket for premie babies but the joy of seeing it come together. Sewing it up and it is lemon and white.
Music is therapy for me too ... making music as you can see from my page.
Go easy with yourself ... it will take time.
Yes I too believe we are to be happy again but it takes time to find that happiness. Can you find a counsellor/therapist who will speak with you or if that is not possible you need to use here.
Bless you today and sending warm hugs {{{{{{{{Elaine}}}}}}}}
So sorry for you. I lost my husband over 15 years ago. I am living with my daughter now in Apple Valley. I am 92. I love the computer, I do Calendars and pictures.Would love to hear from you.
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