My dear Donna, I am sorry that you are having such trouble. You have a beautiful cat. I have cats too and they are so entertaining. I am not one to give advice. Actually I am a better listener than advice giver but I am going to try. I know how it is to be on disability and look over your shoulder just waiting for someone to think you fabricated your story to get the disability. Please don't worry about that. Driving shouldn't be a reason for taking you off disability. You obviously have more problems with other phobias than driving and I am sure that was the reason you received your disability. Do you meditate? If so, get very quiet and take your mind to a place where you feel safe and at peace. Then ask the Lord to take your problems from you and lighten your load. You might ask for an angel to be by your side. I really believe that with God all things are possible. When things seem insurmountable to me, I just turn it over to the Lord. It isn't easy to do that because you have a tendency to worry after you do this. I believe in Miracles and Angels. My faith runs very deep. I also believe that God puts you where he wants you to be. Here is a case, like me visiting this site. I felt directed to do so and I have a stack of work to do. In other cirumstances, I might have skipped over this. Donna, if you need to talk, please don't hesitate to call upon me. I would like to add you as a friend with your permission of course. In the meantime, put your trust in the Lord and he will ease your burden. With my love, Elle Jordan
{{{{{{{{Donna}}}}}}}} that was really hard for you. A birthday is a happy time but to have your husband's death anniversary around Father's day is a double blow to you. It is small wonder that you felt so bad that day. Would love to hear more from you if you are able to write.
My 15 year old daughter is going to St Louis Missouri on Sunday for 4 weeks. Seems such a long way away from Belfast. It is good though how we can meet and make friends this way despite the miles between. She was able to phone and chat last night to the girl she will be staying with. It is so cold and wet that my daughter is looking forward to the warmth of 30 degrees compared to 15 here. How hot is it in Utah?
Thinking of you today
Anne
Hi Donna
Hope you are ok today. It is a kind of hard day for those of us who are widowed. My husband's birthday was often on Father's day. This year it is on Tuesday. My little grandson will be one year old on Tuesday as well.
Love and hugs to you today {{{{{{{{Donna}}}}}}}}
Thank you I appreciate that I don't know where to start or how to start to tell you what I feel or what is even going on right now I am very overwheled right now Donna
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My 15 year old daughter is going to St Louis Missouri on Sunday for 4 weeks. Seems such a long way away from Belfast. It is good though how we can meet and make friends this way despite the miles between. She was able to phone and chat last night to the girl she will be staying with. It is so cold and wet that my daughter is looking forward to the warmth of 30 degrees compared to 15 here. How hot is it in Utah?
Thinking of you today
Anne
Hope you are ok today. It is a kind of hard day for those of us who are widowed. My husband's birthday was often on Father's day. This year it is on Tuesday. My little grandson will be one year old on Tuesday as well.
Love and hugs to you today {{{{{{{{Donna}}}}}}}}